10 tips for strap-on sex

10 tips for strap-on sex

Strap-on sex can bring new life to your sex life, no matter your gender or sexual orientation. Strap-on sex involves attaching a dildo to a certain part of the body to penetrate your partner. This kind of strap-on sex can reverse the power dynamic and is a new exploration that adds spice to your sex life.

1. Communication is key

Before trying a new sexual activity, it's crucial to communicate with your partner and make sure your partner agrees. Consent is sexy. Express your desires and desires to your partner, understand each other's preferences and boundaries, and talk about what strap-on sex means to you. If you want strap-on sex, oral sex, anal sex, or something else, make sure your partner agrees with you. Especially with a new partner, it's equally important to express your dislike.

2. Be prepared

Buying a strap-on that fits well before you start can make or break the experience of sex. An ill-fitting strap can lead to a very unpleasant experience. Therefore, before you start, make corresponding strategies and precautions, which will allow you to face it more calmly and ensure each other's safety and health. When it comes to getting ready for strap-on sex, one thing that has to be mentioned is lube. You can’t go wrong with plenty of lube, especially if you’re trying out strap-on anal sex, which means you’ll want to use a lot of lube. Also be careful that the lubricant does not react with the material of the dildo or the condom, as this can damage their structure and cause damage.

3. Self-education

It’s essential to educate yourself before starting to try something new. You can start by understanding relevant knowledge and strapping videos to let yourself know better and learn some tips. Spend some time learning how to wear the straps, adjusting the angle and pressure to find what feels most comfortable for you.

4. Not all dildos are created equal

There are so many dildos to choose from, and having a good feeling depends largely on the preferences of the person being penetrated, so it’s important to understand your partner’s preferences. Of course, you can also try a variety of different dildo shapes to find the one you like best.

5. Pay attention to cleaning and safety measures

Clean the dildo before and after use with water and mild soap. Not only is this a health and safety guarantee, it also extends the life of the dildo. If the dildo is not cleaned in time, it will increase the risk of infection or inflammation, and damage the structure of the dildo, rendering it unusable.

If your dildo is going to be shared, remember to put a condom on the dildo each time. This not only ensures hygiene, but also isolates some sexually transmitted diseases and protects each other's safety and health. Even if you are alone, if you want to switch from vaginal to anal use, you must wear a condom to prevent bacteria from the anus from being brought into the vagina.

6. A wide range of strap options

Just as the recipient needs to choose a dildo, the wearer needs to choose the right strap-on. There are many choices for straps, such as nylon or leather, as well as boxer briefs and underwear versions. For novices, it is safer to choose something that can be adjusted.

7. The goal is for both parties to feel happy

Not only the person being penetrated feels happy, but if you also like the feeling of being penetrated, you can choose a double-ended or strapless dildo so that both of you can have fun. You can also add other sex toys to add new stimulation and pleasure. For example, penis rings, vibrators, or bdsm props, etc.

8. Aftercare

Even during strap-on sex, don’t neglect aftercare. Not only can it take care of your partner's physical and mental health, but it can also bring you closer to each other and connect them emotionally. You can try taking a shower together after sex, giving each other massages, preparing food and water for each other, communicating and praising each other after sex.

9. Don’t worry about your appearance

It's hard at first not to be distracted by yourself wearing a strap-on, focusing on your appearance or worrying if it looks weird. Don't worry, you're not alone. It is more important for both parties to feel happy in this process. If you still feel worried, you can communicate with your partner, which may alleviate the situation and make you more confident.

10. You won’t become a pro overnight

If this is your first time trying strap-ons, don't be too worried and anxious. You cannot go from novice to professional player in a short period of time. Don't put too much pressure on it. It is normal to be unskilled. This requires long-term practice. You can practice wearing the straps more and get used to the feeling of the straps on your body to find the position that makes you feel most comfortable.

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